Matchmaking Soulmates
Eyes Are the Window to Your...Soulmates

You can experience my approach in social events, drop-in dating coaching and matchmaking, sessions at public events and in private readings. Scroll down to see upcoming socials and drop-in events.

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Our initial session will likely focus on YOU and your dating history, plus ideally a bit on your parent(s) and exes. We'll review the 4 Lessons of Love and who are YOUR SOULMATES. Next steps will likely be to change the way you date Online or IRL (in real life, or as my colleague calls it, dating in the wild). Topics include:

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• Matchmaking Online – let's screen people on your online dating site(s) to find you great dates and soulmates!

• Matchmaking IRL – you'll show me photos of people you're interested in, I'll read them and share my insights; or we'll review photos of people you know to see who you've missed

• Personalized Matches + Practice Dates – if I know someone who might actually be a good match for you, or someone whom it would be good for you to practice with (so get an experience of a much better date with no pressure), if they agree, I'll connect you for free and share the relevant context

• Write/Tune Your Profile – chances are your profile does not show the real you, and you're hiding some of your most important, valuable and attractive traits; you might be wearing false masks too; we'll shine light on your authentic self, highlight your soul and put it in your profile

• Take/Tune Your Profile Photos – do your photos show the real you or instead masks of what you think will be attractive; look at my blog article on how to take photos that show your passionate, real soul that will find you soulmates

• Choose Which Site(s) – there are so many to choose from, some are definitely better than others

• Write Messages – you'll get many better dates if you write to good people (not wink/like and wait for them to write you), I'll show you what to say to increase the reply rate and get deeper replies; we'll likely practice a few together

• What to Do on a Date – your soul and purpose suggest what is great for you to do on dates; I believe it is best for everyone to be able to genuinely connect on a first date, and the best way to do that depends on your eyes (and their eyes) 

• Stay or Go – if after a few dates you're questioning things, it could be time to let this one go OR it could be that you feel scared since it's better than ever before and you're "upper limiting" - I'll help you discern the difference

• Heal the Past, Change Your Patterns – there are lessons we're all typically navigating in dating and relating; there are 4 Lessons of Love that help us understand the past and heal what's in the way of creating a good relationship, such as with a soulmate

• Soulmates Are – people with similar souls, so it often feels like we know each other deeply when we first meet; if you believe in this - sometimes they've had past lives together, and more often they are simply in a large soul family - we have many soulmates!

• Honoring & Empowering Diversity – I collaborate with an unlimited range of dating and relating styles (including dating anarchy), preferences and gender identities plus my approach is trauma-informed, attachment-informed, somatic-focused, and I'm continually learning and making better choices to empower anti-racism, anti-ageism, anti-ableism, etc. 

• Anything Else – I'm open to exploring just about anything you might want to discuss 

We’ll meet by video or in person, for whatever length of time you prefer. The first session is often one hour.  You may provide photos before we meet (I'll do an initial reading of them) or bring them to our session (see our guidance on photos), which we'll likely record.

After your session, if we discuss ThriveTypes archetypes, we can send you a map of your soul (and patterns in your exes), any materials we looked at together, and the recording. 

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We can also meet briefly to explore working together before diving in for a session....